of colors and cones

What is your favorite color?

A common question that I have been asked more times than I could ever begin to count. No doubt you've had the same experience. Often the question is posed by a bright-eyed child who is experiencing the understanding of named colors for the first time. My niece, Paige, has shown an immense fondness for orange. I think that's cool.

Now, let's just say that a child comes to you and asks about your favorite color? What would happen if you responded by speaking of colors such as azure, russet, celedon, or auburn? What if you started describing how you get reds and greens confused because the cones contained within your eye don't perceive them accurately? What if you decided to respond to the question by describing how it's a complex question based on the fact that colors are only our perception of the light spectrum as it is refracted.. blah, blah, blah? You would certainly receive a forlorn look and a response that would call into question whether or not you have any inkling of what a color is.

We commit this exact same foul in the Church. We have those who are not familiar with our Christianese jargon... or those who are just starting to learn of the great depths of God. They come to us seeking conversation or an answer to a question. What is our response? Do we respond with detailed descriptions of theological, doctrinal, and dogmatic principles? Do we use unfamiliar terms such as sanctification, atonement, or revelation?

There is an appropriate time for all things. If I'm speaking with an interior decorator it may be more appropriate to speak of my fondness toward cappuccino colored walls. If I'm speaking to a seminary student or to a mature Christian it may be well received when I speak of Christ's propitiary sacrifice.

Be on guard regarding this. Language is a powerful tool. Know who you are speaking to. Listen and hear. Does this person just want to know your favorite color? Or does she just want to meet this Jesus that died for her?